Anonymous: I already asked someone else this question, but I want another persons view. So I kind of have a crush on my best friend. He's an amazing person to be around, & I think he has a really good personality. He has a girlfriend, but he says he doesn't think it's going to last. I don't know if he flirts or if he's just being friendly. He gives me mixed signals & confuses the everything out of me ._. I know he doesn't look at me the same way considering I'm not skinny. Any ideas on how to get over him?
If he looks at you as any less than any other girl because you’re not skinny, then you don’t need to waste your time on him at all. Did he tell you that he doesn’t think him and his girlfriend are going to last? If so, then he probably likes you and wanted to let you know that he’ll be single soon so don’t start dating anyone :P but also be careful, because if he breaks up with another girl to date you, then whose to say that he won’t do the same to you? If you want to get over him, give it some time. It definitely doesn’t happen overnight. You can’t wake up one day and say “okay, I’m deciding to be over him now!” Because the next time he looks at you, you’ll be back at square one. I hope all goes well! I’m definitely hoping for the best!
-Mariah